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#Hate, When Does It End? #RRBC #Parenting

Nothing breaks my heart more, than to hear a story about a child being hurt.  Whether they were hurt in a car accident, abused by an adult, mistreated verbally or even shoved on the playground…my heart feels it all, and their pain is mine…in a huge way.

It is now the year 2016, and we are still having the same discussion about Bullying that we had 10 years ago.  We are going to continue to have this discussion, simply because parents are choosing to not have the “proper” conversations with their children, in their homes.

Kids today are still not being taught empathy, compassion, patience, sensitivity and the simple difference between right and wrong.  And because of this lack of teaching, other kids are being bullied, murdered and even forced into feeling that the only way out of their pain, is to commit suicide.  How long are we going to stand by and watch the innocent suffer?  What is it going to take to get YOU to stand up and voice your displeasure in the direction of those who are offending?  Change can only come when we all take a stand…  not just one of us, not just a race of us, not just a gender of us, and not just a class of us.  It’s going to take ALL of us to make a difference.  And since that’s all of us who bleed ‘red,’ YOU are included in that number.  We must go back to being a village when it comes to raising our children, or we are destined to be tagged as a nation of monsters.



*White lives

*Black lives

*Brown lives

*Grey lives

*Straight lives

*Gay lives

We matter all.

I know this is old, but I’d like you to take a peek at the BULLY CHAT.  If you’re not moved to make a change after watching this, there’s something wrong…and you should stand in front of a mirror and take a long hard look at the person staring back at you.

Better parenting = better children.  What’s your take on that?

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My adult daughter walked in and showed me this today. It hurt my heart so much to know that somebody as low as the person who is holding this baby, was allowed to give birth. I cried long after I saw the video and my tears will continue until WE as a society stop ALLOWING these animals to have children! Where was her license to have this baby who she is holding down, harming? Children are supposed to be able to turn to their parents when they’re in pain, but what about the ones whose parents are CAUSING THEIR PAIN? This is too much. This is why I work so hard to change the world…to change our daughters. What did her mom teach her and show her that would cause her to not even flinch while some maniac (who she had given permission to) branded her baby?


I am an Author and it seems that my most major platform would be writing about children.  I write about their safety, their upbringing, their souls, their hearts and even their protection.  My debut novel is called “DAYDREAM’S DAUGHTER, NIGHTMARE’S FRIEND” and it is a far cry from my 1st book release “THE GOOD MOMMIES’ GUIDE TO RAISING (ALMOST) PERFECT DAUGHTERS“.  But, if you enjoy great reading, I would recommend them both.

I am a true believer in that EVERYONE should not be allowed to become parents.  There are so many laws in place to protect everything imaginable, even laws to protect animals from abuse.  There are checks in place to ensure that you can drive, you can practice in a certain field, you can buy a gun….but where is the check when it’s time for someone to become a parent?  Where is the application that asks everything from the color of your hair, where you’ve lived for the past 10 years,  down to what you had for breakfast this morning, before you become a parent?  There are none, so therefore, any PERSON, sane or insane, neglectful, abusive, you name it, is allowed to become a parent to an innocent child.


“Children are not asked to be born, therefore when YOU, as an adult make the decision to bring a child into this world, it is your ultimate responsibility to care for them, love them, nurture them and protect them from all ills and harm.  If you do not, you not only fail your child, but you also fail the world, who then must endure the pain and harshness that your child just might decide to inflict, to bury the scars you left on its spirit and on its soul.”  ~  NONNIE JULES, Author

One reader of “DAYDREAM’S DAUGHTER, NIGHTMARE’S FRIEND” couldn’t have said it better when she reached out to me publicly on Twitter and said “this should be given to every NEW parent leaving a hospital with a NEW baby.”

I couldn’t have said it any better.  PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN!  Even if it’s from the monster living in your own house. Yes, I said that.


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